✨ Finding Permission in "No": A Holiday Reflection
Originally posted Dec. 2024
Last week's field trip to The Nutcracker with my son's 2nd grade class and hundreds of other students from around Oakland was a powerful reminder of why I focus my leadership business on adults. As the familiar story unfolded and kids giggled restlessly in their seats, I felt deep appreciation for the teachers who find fulfillment shaping young minds. I resolved to find other ways to support these incredible teachers and kids that don't involve chaperoning field trips.
Intermission at a dress rehearsal of the Nutcracker
The beauty of growing older is gaining clarity about what energizes us - and what doesn't. Recently, a friend of mine embraced her love of takeout over the pressure of home-cooked family meals. A senior leader I worked with realized her tendency to jump in and solve problems - a strength that got her promoted - was now holding her team back. By letting go of being the go-to problem solver, she created space for her team to grow and found herself with more energy for strategic work.
As we approach year-end, we have an opportunity to intentionally release unrealistic expectations for ourselves. If something didn't work last year, don't stubbornly keep it on the list. Reflect on why, then adapt or let it go. Whether reviewing the year alone or with your team, be bold about what you won't commit to in 2025. Clearing the deck of activities that aren't driving value creates space for what truly matters.
Ready to reflect? Here's a printable annual planning guide from Sahil Bloom. Or you can keep it simple and answer these questions for yourself and with your team:
Looking Back at 2024:
What were the high and low points?
What are you proudest of?
What did you learn?
Looking Ahead to 2025:
What's the one BIG thing you want to achieve, and what are some behaviors or habits you’ll need to shift to get there?
What are you ready to let go of?
As the first full year of On Purpose Leadership comes to a close, I'm filled with pride and gratitude. I've been lifted by a community of smart entrepreneurs who provided invaluable support and guidance, and by my terrific clients. I'm entering the new year energized about expanding my work with purpose-driven leaders and teams navigating organizational change.
Our family is celebrating the holidays with three mini-adventures around the Bay Area. Whatever your plans, I hope you find moments to reflect and reset before the new year begins.
Sharing our family holiday card below. Happy Holidays!
x-Laura
